I understand your frustrations Platinum. Seeing it from your friend's perspective also, though, if your friend has been without work, and needs money for transportation and has just acquired the position, then your friend will most likely not be able to contribute until the first pay period rolls around. Therefore, the friend is still in need until that income arrives. He/she could be also accessing help from others whom you are not aware of, meaning it is not only you they are running to for assistance with things. Give it time. This person may need some time to get back into a position to pay back or if they do not offer immediately, ask for the favour back sometime.