Thank you so much everyone for the support, understanding and information.
She had a pretty good day today. I'm making her stay here at mom's house so I can kick her butt if she does too much.
I think the steriods are helping immensely already. We'll see tomorrow. She might get a two day break from the unbearable (still pain but not out of control), then have another episode. Tomorrow will tell the tale, I think.
I've asked her to stay here this week. She's agreed.
I'll keep you posted.

Her man engaged to her tonight throughout all of this...
KD
PS - Little man did AMAZINGLY. Not one tear. The teacher said that a person would think he's a second year preschooler. He just did it great.
KD