Hi sadeyedlady,

I'm probably not the best person to give relationship advice or to say whether something is "too forward" or not, seeing how I suffer from "foot in mouth" disease.

However, I am a big proponent on communication. Unless we know the facts, we really only have our thoughts and opinions on which to base our decisions. So, my advice would be for you to do some fact gathering. I don't think it's too forward to send a little note saying it was nice to see you. How well do you know this person? I might be a little hesitant about providing too much personal information.

Seven hours seems a bit of a drive. Did you have the opportunity to ask him what brought him to town? I would think about the questions I would have for him. To me, writing is the easiest. I'm shy, too.

Take care, and keep us posted.

splash