so husband asks me if i might want to do something like go to the mallor something so i look up some stuff we can do that doesnt consist of shopping and spending money .i know he hates the mall and if i am going to deal with people i want to have some fun so i looked up some christmas things to do at the museam they have this huge gingerbread house compitition that people come from all over to build gingerbread houses and put them on display.and then i wanted to go to the festival of trees for the boys and girls club. they have bunches of decorated trees to look at and walk around and vote on your fav ones . so then he says "oh but i wanted to bake my bread" "i was willing to do something later" then why ask??? forget it i dont want to just go to the mall and walk around people. how is this fun. forget it now i just wish he went to work. now he is just going to mess my kitchen