Hi Trindz and welcome. I'm also sorry to hear about what happened in chat, although I am certain is wasn't anything to do with you. Much of how people interact here is filtered through their own issues: be they trust issues, self-absorption, shyness ...etc.
Still, it's not right that you weren't made to feel welcome and that you felt that people were unresponsive. Unfortunately it's often the people who are more familiar to others here (not necessarily better known ... just more familiar, perhaps because they can post more frequently) who get a lot of the attention and that's not right. Everybody deserves our time and caring. I know sometimes some things "grab" my attention more than others, and that's wrong. It's often the ones who aren't crying out for help or attention who need it the most. I'm learning that the hard way.
I have a young family and some issues of my own so I don't always get to visit here as much as I would like but I'm sorry I didn't respond to your other post.
(((trindz)))