I think some of it is your kids wanting you to get back with your ex. It might be heartbreaking but you can't let always let your kids have their way. So in the beginning you might have to "make" them have visits with you without your ex around. In the long run it will be better for your kids to have a healthy relationship with both of you as individuals.
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