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Originally Posted by lido78
When he offered to delete her from Facebook, I said "no" because I don't think it's my place to ask for this and, to be honest, I didn't want to drive her to message him privately.
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well normally it may not be your place to ask this but.. in this case he made it your place to. He just gave you the right to request that by offering to. Me? knowing the situation I would have without your request but that's just me. He did offer, and that put the ball right in the middle of your court, IMO. As for her privately messaging him, that's not a good reason. After all if he removes her as a friend I'm pretty sure she can't message him anymore either. She could only request him to be her friend again
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Originally Posted by lido78
He says he think she may be a bit lonely or even a tad psycho....but I still have to wonder if he's encouragnig her in some way that I don't know about. He's offered to let me see his Hotmail messages, but I declined....I do believe that someone's messages are private but her behaviour still seems off to me....
Over the weekend she made several comments on pictures he posted months or even a year or two ago...it kind of makes me uncomfortable that she's obviously going through his old pictures...honestly, it feels like a bit of cyber stalking...but I'm hoping someone can tell me that I'm just paranoid and that, as long as he isn't really responding, her behaviour really has nothing to do with us.
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Putting those two points together i would tend to agree it's a bit stalker-like in behavior. She sounds obsessed or something. I think if you're given the chance by him to ask him to remove her as a friend I would say yes next time. But still it sounds like she is the problem, not him.