I am going to disregard how hurt I felt due to the fact that he has never asked me about my orgasms and will write to D about apparently having sexual side effects to Topamax. I know he has a theory that developing a side effect to one drug predisposes one to developing the same side effect to another drug - he told me that my having had akathisia, an unusual side effect, on Seroquel, makes it far more likely that I would develop akathisia if I try Abilify - akathisia is THE number 1 side effect of Abilify. So I will write to him that he seems to be right about side effects occurring across drugs - I had the sexual stuff on risperdal, geodon, and now, boom, topamax. If I had a theory and someone accumulated evidence in support of my theory, it would be nice of her to give me that evidence, so I would be nice to him.