Hello Everyone,

Here it is: My fiance broke up with my November 12th 2012....2 days after my birthday. He came home from counselling, didnt say why we were breaking up just said he needed space and time, packed up his stuff and moved to his parents. This of course threw me for a loop cause I didn't see it coming at all.

Two days later he sends me this huge email, apologizing numerous times for what happened. He stated that he was having a mental and emotional breakdown, that he loves me and that one day he would like to meet and talk in person. Anyways, its been a month now and we have had only one other email, with him pretty much just stating that he isn't ready to see me yet.

The thing is, that same day he went to see his counselor. The reason he is seeing a counselor is because he was sexually abused when he was a child and he hasn't dealt with those emotions and hurt feelings. I was the only person who knew about the abuse that happened and he trusted me, I've always supported him throughout it.

I understand the whole dealing with the abuse problem but maybe I'm missing something? can anyone understand why he broke up with me? we were engaged for over a year and together for 2.5 years in total. This just doesn't make any sense to me. Should I wait for him or is this really it? I love him but I'm hurt and confused.

Anyone understand whats going on with him?