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Old Dec 11, 2012, 06:32 AM
Debi54 Debi54 is offline
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Location: Clarkesville, GA
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I thought everything was going as well as can be expected under the circumstances, I felt pretty good, had a good visit with the doctor, am ready to start making arrangements with my creditors about all these bills I have, and life was peaceful. I sent my father two emails, telling him about the progress I had made, thinking he would be happy, have not heard back from him. Then last night, my wonderful daughter called my son to ask him about her mail. Seems her "hubby", who she so proudly liked to announce made 10$ an hour, isn't making that anymore (I found this out somewhere else) and if she gets any mail, to set it aside for her. I hate to tell her, but I'm the one who checks the mail as we have a PO box. I'm sending it back, because everyone said that I couldn't be trusted with anyone's mail, even though I have never messed with their mail in my life. And then this morning, my son told me my father called my daughter, to hear her side of things, so I imagine she lied her butt off and told him how horrible I was to her. Maybe that's why I haven't gotten any answer. She's just not going to be happy until she cuts off every bit of family support I have. All this because a couple of days ago I let her know what my light bill for this month was, and told her she ought to contribute toward it, since she contributed toward running it up. Her reply was more or less, "Too bad, it's your problem," which was what I expected. This from a girl who is collecting over 200$ a month in illegal food stamps, when they are both capable of working, while my son and I get 98$, and skipped out on paying her probation because her PO fixed it for her. It makes me so angry. I know that I was unmedicated while she was growing up, but I didn't know what was wrong with me at the time, and I did the best I could. And now here this child is, determined to destroy my life. I don't know if she realizes by hurting me, in turn she hurts her brother, or if she even cares, but I've about had enough. I can only take so much before I start to fight back, child or no.
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