Meh, men are sometimes... not really emphatetic huggy creatures. They are usually the "problem? want a solution? fine! Want just to whine? go talk to your female friend". (been on both sides of fence. I sometimes need just to whine and I hate when people give me retarded advice. No, I don't wanna call my pdoc for xanax just because I whine about my academic paper. I don't wanna to go to Vienna or dye my hair, I just wanna WHINE for five minutes

then again, I sometimes tend to give people advice when all they need is to rant...).