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Originally Posted by RomanSunburn
I have a friend that had an ex boyfriend continually contact her for years after she stopped responding to his messages... From what I understand, his messages were really hurtful.. He just couldn't get over her moving on...
Also, you can always completely block her from your view. I know this can cause some... panic... at not being able to see what is going on... Feels like a loss of control... But at the same time, out of sight, out of mind. I had to do this with one of my husband's ex's. Not because she kept contacting him.. But because she was so buddy-buddy with all his family. I couldn't look at pictures of his 5 year old nephew on facebook without getting sick to my stomach because she posted on it. She had absolutely no boundaries (She's also European....), and his family didn't make it easy for me to ignore her even when we weren't friends on facebook... But now, it's muuuch better.... I rarely think of her (especially now that the wedding is out of the way.. I was terrified his mom had invited her or would ask us to invite her.. or something...)
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I've thought about blocking her from my view and will definitely go this route if I can't get over this on my own. He's actually deleted some of the more annoying posts but is inclined to totally ignore her thinking she'll just get bored of the whole thing. That being said, they are still friendly (a birthday call once a year and a recent job referral that he provided her), and she also posts on his brother's page. She may just be a tad wack-a-do and even have a relationship of her own but, during the first year of our relationship (knowing that we were dating), she reached out to him in an e-mail to tell him that she loved him...So, needless to say, I don't trust her at all. I do trust him (in terms of cheating) but am not quite over the fact that he lied to me about their relationship...In time, I'm sure this will pass, but it just makes me grit my teeth for now.
