+ one abortion + post-abortion care including cervical cryotherapy
+ three IUDs put in
+ two IUDs taken out
+ countless PAP smears

So all in all, I have received a lot of OB-GYN care and can say with confidence that men and women are equally good care providers. CNMs are better not because of their gender but because they practice a different model of care. For instance, they spend more time with you. That is an objective difference.