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Originally Posted by lido78
and she's not exactly inclined to be sensitive to my feelings (why should she though, she doesn't owe me anything, especially if she wants him back).
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Honestly? Out of respect for other people's significant other! The fact that he's involved with you is enough reason to respect that boundary, she doesn't have to like or care about you, it's just the right thing to do. Even out of respect for him, she should be respectful of your relationship. Hopefully he's wise anyway and she's not winning any points by ignoring that boundary.
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but I do kind of freak out internally whenever I see ANY comment at this point, no matter how benign...and this is my issue to fix. Argh!
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Completely understandable, it is a rare person that can put up with these things without any kind of worries or feelings about it.
