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Originally Posted by lido78
I've thought about blocking her from my view and will definitely go this route if I can't get over this on my own. He's actually deleted some of the more annoying posts but is inclined to totally ignore her thinking she'll just get bored of the whole thing. That being said, they are still friendly (a birthday call once a year and a recent job referral that he provided her), and she also posts on his brother's page. She may just be a tad wack-a-do and even have a relationship of her own but, during the first year of our relationship (knowing that we were dating), she reached out to him in an e-mail to tell him that she loved him...So, needless to say, I don't trust her at all. I do trust him (in terms of cheating) but am not quite over the fact that he lied to me about their relationship...In time, I'm sure this will pass, but it just makes me grit my teeth for now. 
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thinking more on this, I honestly think he should defriend her and if he has gmail, just block her emails from her. If he really cares nothing for this woman it should be no big deal, I dont think he's a bad guy at all but it seems to me if he loves you, and is afraid to block her, that he probably is a non confrontational person and doesn't make many waves, and that might be his reasoning. Still though, his priority should be on your feelings of security and happiness. I'm just sayin...