He is extremely non-confrontational. In fact, it may be one of the reasons he's having business issues right now. He's had a pattern of letting other people influence him, even to his own detriment. From his parents, to his business partner to his ex-wife....They've all had their own agendas and have not always thought about his needs....but, to be honest, he's not taken care of his own needs himself. We're totally working on this. I want him to find his OWN way of standing up for himself without imposing my methods on him. I'm a fairly aggressive person and will stand up for myself in almost any situation....I also love a good fight on behalf of an underdog...it's just my nature (as it is his) that stems from childhood stuff I'm sure. He offered to de-friend her and to ask her to knock it off but I said "no" because some women see these things as a victory...if she's interested in him still and senses that she's causing problems, I'm not sure if she'd take it to the next level or not (whatever that means). She may be a perfectly nice person who just has a problem with boundaries and nothing more than that...Given that other people have had too much influence on him and this is something that he's working on, I really am hesitant to ask him to de-friend or block...these really do have to be his choices.