I'm so sorry this happened. I was "best friends" with someone for seven years. One day she skipped town and I found out she had an unpaid bill in my name and had trashed the apartment she was renting from my grandpa. I too used to drive her everywhere. You aren't "making a big deal out of nothing". You have every reason to be hurt. The incident with my so called friend has made me weary of letting people get too close. This is one aspect I have started working on with my therapist. Do you think seeing a therapist would help you? Otherwise, I would try to confide in people that would be understanding. Unfortunately some people use the internet to be intentionally nasty to people. I'm sorry you had that experience elsewhere. I have found this board to be very supportive and understanding.