I too was and am very much a tomboy. but all woman on the inside. I never have had what I call really close female friends, only a handful as I too was much more comfy around the guys. maybe because all my cousins were boys. I still don't wear the makeup too much. maybe once a year. Please think long and hard before you come out as being transgendered. Maybe you are just like a few of us here ...tomboys....you didn't say you felt like a man inside. that is the key right there hon.