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Old Dec 12, 2012, 12:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Chopin99 View Post
Here's the thing; you probably don't know the background with my T. She used to consistently let my sessions run over by 10-15 min. One time, she asked me to fix a bracelet I made her after session...we shot the breeze and she shared about herself until 35 minutes after session, then we walked down to our cars together ("because it isn't the best neighborhood"). I offered to walk her down to her car after a session a couple of weeks ago (it was dark) and she politely refused. Another time, something was wrong with her iPad. I made a (mostly) sincere gesture to help fix it. She said yes. That day, I stayed 45 min after session trying to fix it.
That does seem parallel with my T's email rage.

A T allows a patient a great deal of leeway.
Then she decides enforce the rules more strictly.
This is a horrible blow to the patient, who has done nothing wrong but feels punished and rejected.
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