thankyou all for your kind words and thoughts. i really appreciate it . and happyDaisy i'am not offened at all sweets. mother in law is just 68, she as no faith, and is married to a lovely man for 42 years who is american, He was an MP in the military in England and she met him at a army dance . and the rest is history.
saw her on monday, she look's good, but a shadow of her former self, anyway i will keep you guy's posted ,thankyou again
gismo xx