So you're afraid things can't be fixed. That is exactly why I looked for a t with a worse situation than mine, to see if he would finally say, no hankster, you're right, yours is worse. Then if he could still be happy, so could I. Also, the physical stuff. I hate being crosseyed. I bet you hate being blurry. So we're not perfect but we can cope with it. Maybe that's the lesson here for us.