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Originally Posted by granite1
she said because i am having a hard time taking my medication and taking care of my health she said that i don't seem to care weather i live or die. that is when she said this effort thing.
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Well if you aren't taking care of yourself then you aren't making the effort. But this is different then what the mother said to you. The mother was mean. Your T isn't mean. She is just trying to get you to look at your reality.
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Originally Posted by granite1
i let her know to much about me and now she is horrible and is going to try and fix what cant be fixed and then say to heck with it or just give up.
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I think all of this can be fixed granite. It seems that you are stuck between a rock and a hard place here but there is an escape route. In your mind it seems that you are making very tight, inflexible pathways about your situation. If you could only let go of this, step back and see that the pathway isn't as restrictive as you think it is. I hope I'm making sense.
