So far my 2 cents... she did take the email personally, T's are human and you two are close. Is it possible that all the turmoil with your job right now caused the email to sound more critical then inquisitive about the last session? I have a way of thinking something is wrong with others when something is wrong with me, just a thought. I hope you both can revisit this session and the email and get past this. ((((((Chopin)))))))