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Old Dec 12, 2012, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted by earthmamma View Post
Therapy is the place where anything can be discussed. Go ahead and talk about it.
Yep. I think it'd be incredibly beneficial for you to talk about and work through this:

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In all honesty I think I'm the one with some sick attraction to this man. I'm a married woman of 13 years and being attracted to the man who does my individual and marital counseling is rather embarrassing. Actually it's more pathetic than anything. It's so bad now someone has to do something deliberate, forward, and over the top for me to percieve it as a come on or attraction. I believe I have some messed up disorder that causes me to notice every little thing a male does towards me. So now I decided to disregard everything.
Do you think that's something you'd be able to do, or is it a no-go right now? I do think it would help, so long as he's supportive and can guide you through it, and ultimately, out the other end.
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