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Originally Posted by liviacat
I agree with the feedback above - there have to be resources available for you especially in domestic violence situations or abuse situations. As hamster asked, with the divorce do you have a lawyer? They would/should be able to assist you in resolving this issue without concluding abandonment. Even if you contact SSD yourself, you'll at least start a paper trail that shows you're actively involved in wanting to resolve the issue to the benefit of your child and your safety.
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I have a lawyer, but the judge in the county Im from is so dead set on focusing on the abandonment instead of the abuse that its unfair! What about me? Im the one who originally filed. Im the one suffering! I swear if I have to go back to him Ill be in solitude all over again ! No one seems to care about mental issues in these cases except but to punish us for being czy and unfit parents. Well, I took care of my son as a stay at home mom for 13 years! If thats not sane, then I dont know what is. My husband is just pissed that I left his controlling, mental abusive self! Yes, I do have an attorney. But I doubt his abilities sometimes.