I came home from my neighbors after my daily 1 hour stay for coffee. I looked at my computer and saw my yahoo IM screen up. My 10 year old daughter ran to close it. I told her "no", it was one of my friends, and she ran away. My electronic friend, Allen, had justed posted "Is this really you Dee"?. In response I asked Allen if he was talking to someone on my computer. He said, yes, he knew it wasn't me because I didn't know my age and all the writing was in caps. I then asked him what my 10 year old daughter said, and he was hesitant, and advised we should discuss over phone instead of through computer. (I saved the message but still haven't scrolled back to see what was said). By this time, I put the kids to bed, and was anxiously awaiting his call. First, I asked him not to be to explicit (I am petrified), and he agreed. He is a father with grandchildren my daughters age. Allen advised my daughter was looking for some cyber action, and she knew much more than any 10 year old he knows does. OMG, my heart is sinking....My question is...OK I have a T appt early tomorrow morning...do I scroll through the message b4 to talk with him..or after.. do I call the school tomorrow for a heads up....this is so hard w/o any family. You guys are all I have. Sorry for the pressure, but I really need some help. I need to look at this message but I can't. I need to talk with her tomorrow after school and discipline her, but how??? I did not approach my daughter b4 bed, and probably won't until she gets home from school Wednesday!!!