I would walk too Lady Zero, I am sorry.

He doesn't seem to want more than this. My bf and I have been together 6 years, we don't live together either. But we spend so much time together, are part of each others families, and a big part of each others lives. We don't live together because of financial restrictions on my end of things. But we progress in other ways. So that is how it is for now, not how we wish it.

You said you don't want to be a friends with benefits, but it kinda sounds like you have been for the last 10 years. I can't really see what other relationship stuff there is shared between the two of you from what you have posted here.

His waiting around for a year doesn't count for much. You are friends right.. and you talk here and there, and he lets you know he still want to have sex and see you. From your other thread it didn't sound like he was intending on really waiting around, but stopped short for his own reasons. And I know maybe you don't want to hear that. That is just my opinion. For all I can see.. is he might just be waiting and no one else showed up and he is too lazy to really look. Honestly I don't mean it rudely he just doesn't show much initiative for anything. I am not saying that to be hurtful at all, just there doesn't seem to be much commitment here in the first place. Maybe HE is stuck, just not moving in any direction? Is he like that with the rest of his life?

I really wonder about the crippling depression you are facing and how much of it has to do with being to unsatisfied with this relationship and not getting your needs met for so long?

I think staying any longer might just prolong or stop you from meeting someone who can provide you with what you need and accept what you have to offer. I hope you will be able to find that tho.