It IS very disturbing when, as parents, we see this from our young children. I'm so sorry.

Can you get with your t, the school counselor and discuss talking with her further. It could be that someone outside could talk with your daughter...a police officer, or someone knowledgeable in online crimes against children. This could be a changing experience and an end to this behavior possibly?

I would also investigate her friends at home, and ask counselor about her friends at school if she was talking way above her age, etc., to find out where possible exposure of these discussions might be coming from. I have to say that I had one instance of something like this with my youngest, and even though she was 16, I went to the school counselor, etc., and asked about friends and stuff and found out exactly what I needed to do from there. There wasn't another instance. It was a different set of dynamics. However, I recognized the behavior as "not my daughter". I was right...

We're here. Please keep us updated as we all care about our children.

Many hopes and wishes to you tonight.

KD