View Single Post
 
Old Dec 12, 2012, 02:54 PM
sunrise's Avatar
sunrise sunrise is offline
Legendary
 
Member Since: Jan 2007
Location: U.S.
Posts: 10,383
I chose "other." For me trust wasn't an all or nothing thing so that I could choose yes before 10 weeks I didn't have it and after 10 weeks I did. It built gradually for me, as I got to know him, and him me. I connected with him immediately, though. Just "click" from day 1. I did share something with him very important to me quite early on, and I look back now and think that this may have been a kind of test to see if he was trustworthy. He did fine on "the test" and this helped us continue developing trust. I also had dreams about him very early on as my subconscious was grappling with the relationship.
__________________
"Therapists are experts at developing therapeutic relationships."