I was essentially raped at 14, by a friend of my older brother at a university party. I was threatened that if I did not submit, I would be taken out into the country and dumped off. No it was not pretty and really traumatic. A year later a boy friend talked me into it and I became quite promiscuous after that. Unplanned pregnancies, miscarriages, a shotgun marriage, and an ugly divorce followed later.

I suspect that for a lot of people here it was not the most romantic evening. Unfortunately I was totally unprepared for sex as a teenager. I had to learn years later to develop a positive attitude and learn to really love/enjoy sex for the wonderful, pleasurable experience that it was meant to be