This is a difficult situation, but I think it's essential that you look at that message before your T appointment. It may shock you and you may need to talk about and get some advice. I also think it's important you know what she had said, and where she had learn that sort of stuff from. She may have learned it from the computer, being in chat rooms, and IM's. I wouldn't be freaked because if you think about it, kids see sex everywhere on T.V, from their peers, books,....anywhere. When I was 10 I knew alot more then I probably should have. I hope this all goes well and you can sit and talk to your daughter about what had happened.