Hmmm...I've never thought about your 3rd option of requesting a different judge. How would I do that? Do I have that power? Would my stupid attorney have to do that? I live four hours away now. Well actually I may be moving back to the area (within 50 miles) pretty quick now that I can't afford to live here in Austin anymore. Custody agreement? My husband has full custody right now. My son doesn't even want to see me. Everyone has plagued his mind that I abandoned him, even though he knew in advance that I was going to leave.