The biggest age difference I've had w/ a guy was 8 yrs. He'd been married and divorced w/ a child. My parents hated him. But it didn't matter to me. He was immature and I can see why things didn't work out for him and his x wife. But that relationship didn't last for us either.

How old is to old. Hummm. Age is in your heart. Some older men are more active then younger men. Some 80 yr olds are more active then 40 year olds, look at a gym. A friend of mine just got married . She is 38 and he is 58. She requires physical therepy and he cares because he has been married twice prior and both of his wives have passed away. (cancer and car accident) It makes him the wonderful understanding person that he is. His children are 2 years younget then his wife is now. Yikes. But he is a good man, My friend is very insecure and needs a father figure and to be taken care of emotionally and physicially. He can do that. They love one another. It is weird because he is the same age as her dad. But after her dad met him and they talked alot about many things her dad was very happy to have him marry his daughter. Being older he could take care of her and her daughter from a previous marriage in a way that a younger man may not be willing. After finding out about his previous marriages and how they ended he had empathy for the man. He knew he was not marring his daughter just for sex. Since he is so much older and his health is declining already sex might be an option but wild crazy sex not so much. They are both vanilla by the way.

I agree w/ who ever said it. If you are both not on the same page sexually then it might not work out anyway. Not to be disheartening or anything.