Such a hard question because I don't see it as being as black and white as either don't trust/do trust. I trusted my T quite a lot as soon as I met her. I liked her more than I liked most people and did feel safe with her. There were still things I didn't trust (I thought she was going to get sick of me and give up on me). Even now there are some things like that. Sometimes when she says she'll do something and then she doesn't, I can't trust that she had the best intentions, and I feel like it's all about me. Mostly though, I did trust her as soon as I first met her. There are just a few things I get caught up on.