To answer in the spirit of the question, I'd say that genitals aside - which for the most part I'm not going to see - the one thing a woman has that I do not is a nice pair of breasts. I have seen pictures of people and thought to myself that the butt or thighs were kind of cute only to afterward realize that I was actually looking at a picture of a man. If it comes down to the face and voice and I still haven't seen anything I like, I usually don't find anything sufficient to be a turn-on. On the other hand, if I like the body but I don't like the face to go with it I tend to be disappointed.

At risk of sounding politically correct, or not, the more I get to know a woman the more I tend to give her credit for her looks. Her body becomes more interesting because it is hers. I have been told that it is the other way around for women; they tend to be more likely to forget that their close male friends are male.

A lot of men can cook really well, too.