My wife will not open up to me at times I feel ok, but herd from my middle child today my wife hates her life,we have been on the outs for many months now I am getting tired wondering if all the abuse is worth it when it all gets thrown back into my face like the past she will not let nothing go, I guess she last weekend when I left for a few hours did nothing but cried. How to get her to open up???

Is crazy I have tried but gets to a point why why do everything to please then nothing works and I am still the bad person.I am so tired of being miserable for nothing no companionship what so ever nothing nothing here I set again alone tired being alone I want help I want affection consideration nothing I am lost to me I have done nothing but failed my 25 years of marriage.