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Originally Posted by farmergirl
it is your perceptions/emotional connections you have placed on the object that are harming you, and you need to work through those. So, work through those connections to get past them instead of trying to avoid them by hiding the object. Hiding the object is just camoflauge. I suspect that is what he'd like you to be work on.
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This is true. But believe me, there is literally NO WHERE I can look in his office, besides directly at T, where there isn't a similar item. This item just happens to be on one side of the couch while everything else is either in front of me or on the other side. In the big scheme of things, there is still PLENTY for me to work through. I just wanted a little bit of safe space.
I really do appreciate your perspective though. I really do get what you're saying.