I'm just on the tail end of something similar, and I know how incredibly painful it can be when T does stuff the makes you feel like you're not valued. Been there, done that, shed the tears.

I can't tell from what you've said why T is refusing to move it when you've been working on "finding your voice" and speaking up about this sounds like you're moving forward. Would it somehow be too easy if he just said OK and moved it? (therapy-wise) Is he making you fight and push to get what you want? IDK. There may be some method to his madness, or maybe he simply doesn't want to move it. IDK.

But I really think you need to keep working on this until it somehow gets resolved. You deserve that. (The thing I just went through took 4 months!!) What's important is exploring the feelings that it's bringing up in you. It makes you feel like you don't matter to him? Tell him!!! Over and over and over again if you have to. Work through it.

If you're worried about boring him with it, remember that you're paying the bill. I know that my T really got pretty sick of hearing me go on and on about "the email thing" but either I was going to get some sort of resolution within myself, or the r/s was over. Period. It couldn't continue as it was. And it ended up being a huge step forward in my therapy.

I hope you can hang in there on this. You DO matter!

PS: You could always bring in a small blanket and toss it over the object during your session, then take it with you when you leave. Show him that this is important to you.