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Old Dec 12, 2012, 09:55 PM
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hi nightsky,

i'm sorry you're dealing with this. i had a few thoughts on the subject:

- maybe the thing can't be moved because it needs to be visible to another client (considering it's so visible to you). still, your therapist could say, "i can't tell you why, but it needs to be there." but maybe it would help to know that this was a possible reason.

- would you be able to put the words in his mouth like, "just tell me if it's because of confidentially reasons you can't tell me why." i know he's saying it's a power struggle, but also maybe he can't actually think of a way to tell you that he can't tell you.

- instead of covering it with a blanket or bringing your own item to put next to it (both great ideas though, btw), can you sit in front of it? better yet, stand in front of it with your arms crossed. i think that would win the power struggle, for sure

best of luck with all of this..
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