
Dec 12, 2012, 10:24 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by Anne2.0
My feedback is the biggest issue about your therapy probably shouldn't be about your T. I'm not sure what this means, but it may or may not have something to do with you focusing on her rather than yourself.
I also think your title is interesting. My first reaction, yeah, so? Your T acts different from session to session, she's not a robot or a machine or the therapeutic equivalent of a stepford wife?
Shouldn't this be about understanding you-- your behavior, your feelings. This was an interaction, and you are somewhere in the midst of it.
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My therapist isn't the same every week. But he acts in a trustworthy way every week, and when he doesn't (which is rare) we discuss it - and to be honest, I'm much more concerned about how he responds when we discuss it than I am the original trigger. And I really want some consistency in being trustworthy with discussing triggers and problems between us.
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