Hi ya Congratulations on having the courage to communicate your feelings with your H. Irregardless of how you did it, you did it and that's such a positive step. Hopefully it will be the key that unlocks the door to your future happiness. As far as the impact on your relationship I suppose only time will tell. Your H has a lot to digest at the moment and it will take him time to process things. Likewise you also have so much happening emotionally you need to take it easy. Take care