I did not have an immediate connection with my T. I remember being a little disappointed after our first session and, after about a month, I considered either stopping therapy or looking for a new therapist. Honestly, the only reason I didn't is because I was too busy to call around and look for a new therapist. I can't remember any specific turning point but, after a few months, I began feeling a connection with my T. It was very gradual, but her care and consistency showed trough and I began feeling like she understood me. I would say it took about 9 months for me to feel totally won over and to trust her completely. Now, after 2 1/2 years, I think my T is absolutely incredible and the perfect fit for me. I referred her to a friend of mine as well, and we now frequently begin conversations with "I just saw T! I love her! She's magical; she makes everything okay!" I love my T and am so so so happy I was too busy early on to follow through with looking for a different T!