I'm so glad you're here, Big Mama (and Hamster, too!). I truly enjoy reading your posts and having these fun conversations.

I got past sex embarrassment mostly in my teens. I took it upon myself to read whatever I could about sex, watch talk shows about sex and explore (without actually doing it with a partner...that happened the day before my 23rd birthday), and I learned there are all kinds out there, nothing to be ashamed of admitting it (except if it violates a child, animal, or someone who can't consent). I think the biggest hurdle I had was openly admitting I masturbated. I was embarrassed the first few times, but I wouldn't let myself chicken out if the topic came up, and now I'm perfectly comfortable admitting I masturbate! Problem is, I'm very comfortable talking about sex and other embarrassing topics, and sometimes people don't know what to make of me. They're trying to whisper about things I shout! LOL!