He wants to be able to keep you yet do whatever he wants with whoever he wants??? What does he want to "keep" you for? To wash his clothes & do his dishes? WHAT A FIRST CLASS JERK!!!

Sweetie, you don't deserve to be treated like this! What is wrong with this man anyway? Is he out of his mind? And he thinks this setup should be OK with you???

Oh PLEASE -- DUMP HIM. Throw him to the curb. He must be smoking something if he thinks ANY woman would put up with that!

Find someone who will cherish you like you deserve to be cherished! Find someone who will LOVE you like you deserve to be loved. And find someone who will be TRUE to you like you deserve! I'm so very sorry this guy has treated you like this. You certainly don't deserve this abuse. And it IS abuse. Get rid of him fast, and change the locks. Don't EVER take him back. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee