Hi all,

My boyfriend(was 49) died unexpectedly July 1 of a "catastrophic heart attack"(autopsy findings).

It was a shock to all of us who knew him and will be for a long time-his absence is noticeable!

Yesterday I realized I needed to get on with life and not obsess over his absence. I'll still grieve him but need to deal with the obsessive thoughts about him that are constantly in my head!

help appreciated!

grace