I'm sorry T's office isn't your safe place anymore. My T knows the lake is my safe place, but I also feel safe in her office. I think you should tell your T because that's what her job is, to help you, no matter what you feel. It's important to feel safe with T, but it doesn't have to be your primary safe place, IMHO.

I understand T's office NOT feeling safe because I feel a tiny bit unsafe since T and I have this problem with touching now, and I don't think she trusts me. She was ready say "no more hugs" when hugs were always something totally safe for me. She's a little bit frustrated with me and that makes me not feel as safe.

It's unsettled when there is a problem not discussed regarding the T-relationship, so that's why I think honesty is the best policy.