I am back from my T appointment. He was distraught and worried, but not as much as I have been. He suggested everything you all did. T reminded me she is a child and her comments in the IM were very childish. She was not trying to be older. Then I called our school psycholologist and spoke with her. Her first thought is "Dee, maybe she is looking for someone for you" And I was like BANG thats it...I remember a couple months ago, we had come home from an outing. I had a confirmation email from a dating service that I never signed up for. I took the link and researched my profile. My daughter had "signed" me up, made me 5 years younger and "pretty, kind, nice, with 2 good kids". I never said anything to her (I know, I should have). It kinda made me teary eyed, knowing she cares. I just deleted my profile. Afte reviewing her IM with my friend (1,000+times), she asked him how old he is., does he like bicycling, and stated "I think I kinda like you". It all makes mores sense now. She will receive a very stern *but loving* lecture. I will advise her of all the dangers. I have locked and password protected all the accounts on the computer. I have deleted the Yahoo IM program. Anything else guys? Thanks so much for being her for me. I hope I will one day be able to do the same for you!

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