Oh, Chopin, what an ordeal.

The first time I saw anything about your T was back when I first joined PC. You were having an issue about her not being accepting of sexualities other than straight. Since then, at least, it seems that she has wild fluctuations in her boundaries, approaches, and moods. I don't know how you can keep your head from spinning. I know she's gone through some really difficult stuff of her own, but it's her job to keep that out of her work with clients.

One of the things I value most about my T is his rock-solid steadiness. I'm sure he's had his own issues in the time I've seen him, but I've never been able to tell by our work. He's consistent. I know that if I bring up something negative about our relationship, he's going to work to understand why I think the way I do, own his part of it, and explain how he'll do things differently to avoid the problem in the future. If it's an issue about me, he helps me to see the other choices I could have made, but always, always, accepts me.

I've never gotten a sense of consistency from your descriptions of your T. It seems like a rollercoaster for you. I really wish it wasn't.