I'm not sure if I understand what you are saying. He was trying to bring it to my attention that if he asks something that is just a little outside of the scope of attunement, that my mind goes blank. It was an observation, and it is true. He was trying really hard to say it in a non jarring way, and he did do a great job at that in spite of it still being difficult for me to hear.

Earlier last week, I had figured out how much I have difficulty hearing things in certain ways from others, because it feels triggering. Even my insight was difficult to take, lol.

My T told me that he was still learning who I am, and I am still trying to trust him. So we are trying to figure that out.