So I am not a virgin, and although I was a virgin until fairly late, statistically speaking (20), it was not very very very late. By 30 I definitely was not a virgin - in fact, I had three children.

But I take the prize, still. For BEING with the oldest virgin - a guy who was 40. It was my birthday present to him. I was 26, in-between marriages, with one son. He took it very seriously and thought/hoped that I would marry him. He is still hurt and offended that I did not marry him. To me back then it was just a humorous event - who would not have wanted to give oneself as a birthday present to a 40 year old virgin guy? I mean, how frequently do you see 40 year old virgin guys? I was very amused.

This was 10 years after he first fell in love with me.

So, a highly unusual story. More unusual than my having akathisia on Seroquel and anorgasmia on a bunch of other psych drugs. Those were also rare events, but less rare.

In hindsight, I regret that I did not treat him with more passion and more seriously back then. But I cannot go back and remedy anything.

It was a good gift that kept on giving - he did go on to have more intimate r/s with women, according to his reports, and even got married, but never had children and never cohabited with his wife - they maintain separate households and apparently only meet several times a year and it is unclear what those meetings entail. But still, some semblance of sexual life is present, so to those who start off late - you can still do it.